Family Office Mistakes That Can Cost Millions
Richard C. Wilson records a module in his mini series on starting a family office after teaching a workshop to ultra-wealthy families.
Richard C. Wilson reviews costly family office mistakes drawn from his clients' experience. He covers weak focus, startup investing, luxury home purchases, deal structures and planning before taking action. He presents the module as part of a series on starting a family office.
In this video: Richard C. Wilson (Host and teacher of the family office module)
What they said
- Support and specialist advisers. Richard says families can lose focus by spreading time, energy and money without building a platform. He suggests adding proactive specialists, such as a tax planner or a family office quality legal advisor, alongside existing providers.
- Startup investments. Richard says his firm avoids startup investments and looks for businesses already making money. He describes a strategic investment in a familiar niche, where the family already has assets, as the exception.
- Luxury home purchases. Richard says buyers may want to move again and may end up owning three to five or seven homes at once over time. He says super luxury homes can fall by 3 to 5, even 10 million dollars in rough economies.
- Deal structures and negotiation. Richard says families can negotiate custom fee and legal structures, including separate LLC share classes. He calls failing to customize fees and legal terms a multi-million-dollar mistake.
- Richard on the family office dashboard. Richard says families should define their values, objectives, mission and direct investment buy box before taking action. He also recommends deciding which brands, managers and company types they will trust.
In their words
"We look for things that are already making money, that have learned how to crawl out of the ocean, walk on their own"
"It's really important that you don't start taking actions until you fill out your family office dashboard"
Why it matters if you are building or preserving great wealth
Richard ranks custom deal structure as a bigger mistake than buying a luxury home at the top of the market. In his view, the terms set at entry can outweigh even a dramatic property loss. That puts deal structure ahead of purchase price as a decision point for families considering a joint venture or co-GP role.
From Richard's exclusive Billionaires.com interviews
Lessons from Richard C. Wilson's one-on-one interviews, as published on each interview page.
- Anu Aga: Focus on one main cause. Her family found its giving more satisfying and impactful once it chose primary education for the underprivileged in India.
- Binod K. Chaudhary: Never chase a deal out of desperation. Stay cool and look at every part of the deal. Have your advisers and your finance team review it critically. Your counsel should review it too.
- Larry Connor: Learn from every mistake. Larry's team owns its failures and makes no excuses. They learn, change quickly, and keep getting better.
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Frequently asked questions
Which rights does Richard say families can negotiate?
He names co-investment, tag-along, drag-along and non-dilution rights. He also mentions asking for a fee reduction when the family is the number one or a top five investor.
What did Richard say about a client's island home?
He said a client bought a home for $15 million, lifted it and rotated it 40 ft to improve the kitchen's ocean view.
Sources
Quotes are copied from the video captions and checked against the transcript. Timestamps link to the moment in the video. General information only, not legal, tax or investment advice.